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Monday, June 8, 2026
Realigning Our Relationships
Realigning Our Relationships
Our relationship with Jesus Christ is the most important because it anchors our identity, purpose, and eternal destiny in divine love and truth. Through Him, we receive forgiveness, grace, and a restored connection with God, which no earthly achievement or relationship can replace. Jesus offers peace in suffering, hope in uncertainty, and unconditional love that transforms our hearts and lives. He is not just a historical figure or moral teacher—He is the living Savior who walks with us daily, guiding, healing, and empowering us to live with meaning and compassion. In Him, we find the fullness of life both now and forever.
Realigning our relationships begins with our relationship with our Savior, and Lord Jesus Christ. If this relationship is solid, it will help our other relationships to be good as well. Realigning relationships through a biblical lens involves embracing principles of reconciliation, forgiveness, love, and humility. Here are some key insights drawn from Scripture:
1. Reconciliation Is a Divine Calling
- 2 Corinthians 5:18 – “God… hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation.”
We're called to mend broken relationships just as God reconciled us to Himself through Christ.
- Matthew 5:24 – “First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”
Reconciliation is prioritized even above religious rituals.
Jesus prayed in His prayer in John 17, that we as His disciples, His followers, that we be one, as He and the Father are one. the apostle Paul writes to the church at Ephesus, that we are to "endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." (Ephesians 4:3)
2. Forgiveness Is Foundational
- Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate… forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Forgiveness is not optional—it’s a reflection of divine grace.
- Matthew 6:14 – “If you forgive other people… your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Our forgiveness of others is tied to our own spiritual renewal.
We must remember at all times, in all our relationships, that we who are in Christ, are a forgiven people. That means that just as Jesus Christ brought about God's forgiveness by His sacrificial death on the cross, that we are to never hesitate to offer forgiveness to those who have harmed us, or have made it difficult for us in our lives.
3. Practice Love as an Action
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 – “Love is patient, love is kind… it is not proud.”
Love is the glue that binds relationships—it’s active, sacrificial, and enduring.
- James 3:18 – “Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.”
Love leads to peace, and peace leads to spiritual fruit.
I remember this illustration of love and forgiveness: It is the sweet and appealing fragrance that a flower gives off when it is trampled. The strong natural tendency when we are hurt or harmed by others, is to get even, or to display a cold shoulder, vowing to never have anything to do with that person, or party ever again. But instead of doing what is natural, we must do what is super-natural, and show the love and forgiveness that God demonstrated toward us, through His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ.
4. Build Trust and Honesty
- Open dialogue, consistency, and accountability are essential for trust.
Scripture encourages us to speak truthfully and listen actively to foster deeper bonds.
- James 1:19-20 "Therefore my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God."
I am one who has, and at times still have anger issues. Sometimes over the littlest things. But I have learned that anger only makes things worse in the conflicts, and arguments we have with others. It is like pouring gasoline on a fire.
Solomon writes: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
5. Embrace Humility and Selflessness
- Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition… value others above yourselves.”
Realignment often begins with putting others first and letting go of pride.
In the realignment of our relationships, we need to see what our attitude, and position should be in our relationships. Instead of the attitude of selfishness, and pride, there needs to be an attitude of humility, and placing ourselves in the position of servant-hood. To answer the question: How can I be a blessing to those around me? To those in my family, friends in the community, to everyone that we have contact with. When our attitude is right, so will our relationships.
If you're navigating a strained relationship, these principles offer a road map toward healing.
Monday, June 1, 2026
Will Our Life's Journey End?
Will Our Life’s Journey End?
Life raises questions that refuse to stay quiet. Among the most sobering is this: Does our journey end when our heart stops beating? Many today insist that once we die, we simply return to dust—no consciousness, no accountability, no eternity. Others believe we enter a kind of spiritual sleep, waiting in stillness until Jesus returns. But Jesus Himself speaks directly to this question in Matthew 7, part of His Sermon on the Mount, where He urges His listeners to enter the narrow gate. He contrasts two paths: one wide and easy, leading to destruction, and one narrow and difficult, leading to life. His words are not philosophical musings; they are a divine warning and a divine invitation.
When Jesus speaks of “life,” He is not referring to mere biological existence or moral improvement. He is pointing to eternal life—a life that begins now through a saving relationship with Him and continues beyond physical death. Eternal life is not simply endless time; it is a quality of life rooted in knowing God. In John 17:3, Jesus defines it plainly: “This is eternal life: that they know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent.” The narrow road is not narrow because God is stingy with salvation; it is narrow because it requires surrender, trust, and a turning away from self‑rule.
Why should people take this seriously today instead of shrugging it off? Because apathy does not erase reality. If Jesus is who He claims to be—the Son of God, the Savior of the world—then His words carry eternal weight. Ignoring Him does not neutralize His authority; it only blinds us to the truth. The wide road is crowded not because it is right, but because it is comfortable. It demands nothing, challenges nothing, and promises everything—yet delivers destruction. The narrow road is found by few not because God hides it, but because many prefer convenience over conviction.
The consequences of rejecting Christ are not symbolic or temporary. Jesus uses the word “destruction” intentionally. It is not annihilation, nor is it unconscious sleep. It is eternal separation from God—the very source of life, joy, and hope. To reject Christ is to choose a destiny apart from Him. This is why the question “If you were to die tonight, do you know where you would be?” is not manipulative; it is merciful. It forces us to confront what we often avoid. Death is not theoretical. It is certain. And eternity is longer than the brief years we spend on this earth.
But Jesus does not leave us in fear. In John 14:1–3, He offers one of the most comforting promises in Scripture: “Do not let your hearts be troubled… I go to prepare a place for you… that you also may be where I am.” This is not poetic language. It is a declaration of our potential destiny—a prepared place for a prepared people. Heaven is not a vague spiritual cloudscape; it is the home of God, the fulfillment of every longing we carry, the restoration of everything broken.
So what is the key to obtaining this hope? Jesus states it plainly: “Believe in God; believe also in Me.” The key is not moral perfection, religious performance, or spiritual achievement. It is faith in Christ—a trust that He is who He says He is, that His death paid for our sin, and that His resurrection secures our future. Salvation is not earned; it is received. The narrow road begins at the foot of the cross.
In the end, the question is not whether our life’s journey will end. It will. The real question is what begins when this life ends. Jesus offers life—real, eternal, abundant. But He will not force it upon anyone. The wide road is easy because it requires nothing. The narrow road is life‑giving because it requires everything—our pride, our self‑reliance, our illusion of control.
Final Word: Your destiny is not a mystery God hides from you. It is a choice He places before you. The narrow gate stands open. Christ Himself is that gate. And He invites you—today, not someday—to enter and live.
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Thursday, May 28, 2026
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Sunday, May 24, 2026
What Do These Stones Mean?
What Do These Stones Mean?
The Priority Of Patriotism
The Priority Of Patriotism
Patriotism is often associated with fireworks, flags, and national pride, but Scripture teaches that the deepest form of patriotism begins not with outward celebration but with inward devotion expressed through prayer.
As Americans approach July 4th, 2025, it is important not only to reflect on the freedoms and opportunities we enjoy but also to remember the spiritual responsibilities that come with citizenship.
The Apostle Paul, writing to Timothy in 1 Timothy 2:1–4, urges believers to offer petitions, prayers, intercession, and thanksgiving for all people, especially for kings and those in authority, so that society may flourish in peace, godliness, and holiness. This instruction reveals that the priority of patriotism is not political passion but spiritual commitment. Paul reminds us that such prayer pleases God because His desire is for all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. When we pray for our nation, we align ourselves with God’s heart for peace, righteousness, and unity. This biblical foundation challenges us to consider patriotism not merely as loyalty to a nation but as obedience to God’s call to lift our country before Him.
The summer of 1776 illustrates how deeply our national identity is tied to both struggle and hope. Delegates from thirteen colonies gathered to make a monumental decision, recognizing that the conditions in the New World had become unbearable under British rule. Their response was the Declaration of Independence, a bold statement of their desire to be a free nation. Yet even as we honor their courage, we must also acknowledge that the founders understood the importance of divine guidance. Many early American documents reflect a desire to preserve the freedom to worship God and to build a society shaped by biblical principles. As a nation, we once openly acknowledged God, sought His wisdom, and recognized His authority. But over time, America has drifted from those spiritual roots. We have pursued our own desires, elevated personal pleasure over moral responsibility, and allowed division, confusion, and moral decay to spread across our culture. Some may accuse such observations of being negative, but realism is not negativity—it is honesty. And honesty is necessary if we hope to see healing. America is struggling in many areas of its social, moral, and spiritual life, and ignoring the problem will not make it disappear.
If there was ever a time to return to the priority of patriotism—prayer—it is now. Prayer is not a last resort; it is the first act of faithful citizenship. It acknowledges that God is the ultimate authority and that no nation can thrive without His guidance. When we pray for our leaders, we are not endorsing their decisions; we are asking God to direct their hearts, grant them wisdom, and restrain evil. When we pray for our fellow Americans, we are asking God to soften hearts, restore unity, and draw people to Himself.
When we pray for our nation, we are participating in God’s redemptive work. This is why 2 Chronicles 7:14 remains so powerful: “If my people who are called by My name will humble themselves and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, forgive their sin, and heal their land.” This verse is not a political slogan—it is a spiritual invitation. God promises healing, but He attaches that promise to humility, repentance, and prayer.
If we want to see America restored, strengthened, and united, we must begin on our knees. Patriotism is not merely loving our country; it is loving our country enough to pray for it, repent on its behalf, and seek God’s will above our own. As we celebrate Independence Day, let us remember that true freedom is found not only in national liberty but in spiritual surrender.
Let us recommit ourselves to being a people who honor God, uphold truth, and intercede for our nation with sincerity and faith. This is the priority of patriotism, and it is the path to healing.
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Tuesday, May 19, 2026
The Overwhelming Storms Of Trial
Sunday, May 17, 2026
Feeling Like We Belong
Feeling Like We Belong
Monday, May 11, 2026
Who Do You Think You Are?
The question “Who do you think you are?” can sound confrontational, but spiritually, it is one of the most important questions a believer can ask. Not in the sense of pride or self‑importance, but in the sense of identity, calling, and responsibility within the Body of Christ. The apostle Paul addresses this beautifully in 1 Corinthians 12, where he explains that every Christian has been intentionally placed by God into the Body, with a purpose that matters.
Paul uses the human body as his illustration because it is something we all understand. The body is made up of many parts—some visible, some hidden, some strong, some delicate—but all essential. The eye cannot do what the hand does, and the hand cannot replace the heart. Likewise, in the church, not everyone preaches, not everyone sings, not everyone leads. Some roles are public and celebrated; others are quiet, unseen, and often unappreciated. Yet Paul insists that the parts that seem less visible are often the most necessary.
This truth challenges the modern mindset that equates visibility with value. In the Kingdom of God, the opposite is often true. The intercessor who prays in secret, the volunteer who cleans the church, the giver who supports the ministry quietly, the encourager who strengthens others behind the scenes—these are spiritual lifelines. Just as the heart pumps without applause and the lungs expand without recognition, these believers keep the Body of Christ healthy and functioning.
But Paul also warns what happens when members of the body refuse to function in their God‑given role. When a part of the physical body stops working, the whole body suffers. A damaged nerve can affect movement. A weakened immune system leaves the body vulnerable. A malfunctioning organ can threaten life itself. Spiritually, the same is true. When believers refuse to serve, withdraw from fellowship, or compare themselves to others, the Body becomes weakened, divided, and ineffective. Ministry becomes lopsided. Burnout increases. The mission slows. The enemy gains ground.
This is why Paul emphasizes that God Himself has arranged the members of the body, “each one of them, as He chose” (1 Corinthians 12:18). Your role is not random. Your gifts are not accidental. Your presence in the church is not optional. You are placed, positioned, and purposed by the Lord.
And this leads to another essential truth: there are only two positions in the church—Master and Servant. Jesus Christ alone is the Master. Everyone else, regardless of title, gifting, or visibility, is a servant. Scripture is unmistakably clear about this. Jesus said:
- “You call Me Teacher and Lord, and you are right, for so I am.” (John 13:13)
- “A servant is not greater than his master.” (John 13:16)
- “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)
Even Paul, one of the greatest apostles, introduced himself repeatedly as a bondservant of Jesus Christ. Leadership in the Kingdom is not about status but service. Authority is not about control but responsibility. The ground at the foot of the cross is level, and every believer kneels before the same Master.
When we forget this, pride creeps in. Comparison grows. Competition replaces cooperation. Instead of functioning as a unified body, we become a collection of disconnected parts. But when we embrace our identity as servants of Christ, unity becomes natural. We stop asking, “Why isn’t my role bigger?” and start asking, “How can I be faithful where God placed me?”
Paul ends his teaching in 1 Corinthians 12 by urging believers to pursue love above all else. This connects beautifully with the final word from Galatians 5, where he contrasts the works of the flesh with the fruit of the Spirit. A church where every member serves in love, empowered by the Spirit, will naturally produce fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self‑control. These qualities strengthen the Body, unify believers, and reflect Christ to the world.
So, who do you think you are?
According to Scripture, you are a chosen, necessary, Spirit‑gifted servant of Jesus Christ, placed by God into His Body for His purpose. Your role matters. Your obedience matters. Your faithfulness matters. And when every member embraces their calling, the Body of Christ becomes healthy, powerful, and unstoppable—just as God intended.
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Sunday, May 3, 2026
Happy Mother's Day Mom!
No one can calculate the amount of excitement, and anticipation for the future, a couple has, when they first become parents. It is the greatest feeling in the world. They hope that their child will grow up, and really make them proud.
Of course we know that, that isn't always the case.
There are so many sad stories out there, of children who rebelled against their parents, and got involved in things that brought destruction and death.
With Satan wanting to destroy families, and all the other evil, negative influences out there, Christian parents, have their work cut out for them.
We still need to hold on to this advice, and promise: "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." (Proverbs 22:6) As Christian parents, that should be our goal, and our hope, as we trust the Lord to help us, in raising our children.
I want to say Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers, especially to my mother who is in heaven now!
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Sunday, April 26, 2026
Graduate In Christ
Sunday, April 19, 2026
Leaving Our Upper Room
Friday, April 17, 2026
The Family Gathering
The Family Gathering
There is an old illustration about two porcupines on a bitterly cold winter night. As the temperature dropped, each porcupine realized it needed the other’s warmth to survive. So they inched closer together, only to discover that their sharp quills pricked and irritated one another. Instinctively, they pulled apart—but the cold drove them back again. After several attempts, they finally learned to draw close enough to share warmth, yet not so close that they wounded each other. Even though they needed each other, they needled each other. In many ways, this is the story of every family gathering. We need one another. God designed us for connection, for shared life, for mutual encouragement. Yet when we come together, our “quills”—our personalities, differences, and imperfections—can easily poke and prod, and needle one another. The question is not whether this will happen, but how God wants us to gather in a way that honors Him and strengthens the family He has given us.
Scripture consistently presents family as a gift from God and a place of intentional togetherness. Psalm 133:1 declares, “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.” Unity does not mean sameness, nor does it mean the absence of difficulty. It means choosing harmony over hostility, grace over grievance, and humility over pride. When siblings grow up, start families of their own, and scatter into different routines and responsibilities, the desire to gather becomes even more important. But how should they do it? What attitudes should shape these gatherings?
First, God calls families to gather with love as the governing principle. Jesus said, “By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” Love is patient, which means we allow room for each other’s quirks. Love is kind, which means we speak gently and listen generously. Love “does not insist on its own way,” which means a family gathering is not the place for competition, comparison, or control. It is a place for servanthood. When adult siblings gather, each bringing their own household, traditions, and rhythms, love becomes the glue that holds the gathering together.
Second, God calls families to gather with humility. Philippians 2:3–4 urges believers to “do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” A family gathering shaped by humility is one where no one is trying to outdo another in material display, social status, or personal achievement. Instead, each person arrives with a heart ready to bless, not impress. Simplicity becomes a virtue. A simple meal, a simple setting, a simple plan—these often create the richest fellowship. Sophistication may impress the world, but simplicity warms the heart.
Third, God calls families to gather with gratitude. When siblings come together after years of life’s changes, gratitude shifts the focus from what has been lost to what remains. Gratitude celebrates the opportunity to catch up on life’s happenings, to share memories, to laugh over childhood stories, and to acknowledge God’s faithfulness through every season. Gratitude turns a gathering into worship.
Fourth, God calls families to gather with intentional encouragement. Hebrews 10:24–25 reminds believers to “consider how to stir up one another to love and good works… encouraging one another.” A family gathering is not merely a social event; it is a spiritual opportunity. It is a chance to speak life, to strengthen weary hearts, to remind one another of God’s promises, and to celebrate His work in each person’s life. Even small, intimate gatherings of a large family can create deep stability. These smaller circles often foster the kind of honest conversation and heartfelt connection that ripple outward into the larger family dynamic.
So how does God want us to gather as a family, no matter the size? He wants us to gather in a way that reflects His heart—simply, humbly, lovingly, and gratefully. He wants our gatherings to be marked not by perfection, but by presence. Not by performance, but by peace. Not by competition, but by compassion. When a family chooses to gather this way, even with their porcupine‑like quills, they discover what those two creatures learned on that cold night: closeness is worth the effort. And with God’s grace, it becomes not only possible, but beautiful.
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Tuesday, April 14, 2026
Should We Take God at His Word That He Exists, or Is It Just Wishful Thinking?
Should We Take God at His Word That He Exists, or Is It Just Wishful Thinking?
One of the most honest questions a believer can wrestle with is this: If we cannot see God physically, are we simply wishing Him into existence, or can we truly take Him at His Word? Scripture never shies away from this tension. In fact, the Bible meets it head‑on, acknowledging both the human longing for sight and the divine call to trust. When Thomas touched the risen Christ, Jesus told him, “Because you have seen Me, you have believed. Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” Jesus wasn’t rebuking Thomas for wanting evidence; He was pointing forward to every believer who would follow—people like us, who would learn to trust the invisible God and yet experience His presence in deeply tangible ways.
Faith, according to Scripture, is not blind optimism or emotional wish‑fulfillment. Hebrews 11:1 defines it as “the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Notice those words: substance and evidence. Biblical faith is not a leap into the dark; it is a step into the light of God’s revealed character. God never asks us to believe without giving us reasons to believe. He reveals Himself through creation, through His Word, through the person of Jesus Christ, and through the ongoing work of the Holy Spirit. The question is not whether God has made Himself known, but whether we are willing to receive the ways He has chosen to reveal Himself.
Creation itself is one of the first witnesses God gives us. Psalm 19 declares that “the heavens declare the glory of God,” and Romans 1 says that God’s eternal power and divine nature are clearly seen through what He has made. We may not see God physically, but we see His fingerprints everywhere. The order of the universe, the beauty of nature, the moral awareness written into the human heart—all of these point beyond themselves to a Creator. This is not wishful thinking; it is recognizing that the world we live in bears the marks of intentional design and divine purpose.
But God does not stop with creation. He speaks through Scripture, giving us a record of His dealings with humanity, His promises, His warnings, and His heart. When we read the Bible, we encounter a God who is consistent, faithful, patient, and just. We see a God who enters into covenant, who keeps His word, who acts in history, and who ultimately reveals Himself in Jesus Christ. The reliability of Scripture, the unity of its message, and the fulfillment of prophecy all serve as anchors for our faith. We are not believing in a vague spiritual force; we are trusting the God who has spoken and continues to speak.
Still, the question remains: How do we live day by day with confidence in a God we cannot see? Scripture gives us practical instruction. First, we cultivate awareness of God’s presence through prayer. Prayer is not merely talking into the air; it is communion with the living God. As we pray, we begin to sense His guidance, His comfort, and His correction. Jesus promised that the Father rewards those who seek Him in secret. Prayer trains our hearts to recognize God’s nearness.
Second, we become attentive to God’s work in our lives. The Holy Spirit is constantly active—convicting, comforting, reminding, strengthening, and leading. When we look back over our lives, we often see moments where God protected us, opened doors, closed others, or gave us peace that made no sense in the moment. These are not coincidences; they are the quiet footprints of a God who walks with His people.
Third, we walk in obedience. Jesus said that those who obey His teaching will experience the reality of God making His home with them. Obedience sharpens our spiritual senses. When we align our lives with God’s Word, we begin to see His hand more clearly. Faith grows not only by believing but by following.
Finally, we remember that God has given us the community of believers. We see God’s character reflected in His people—their love, their generosity, their perseverance, their testimonies of answered prayer. The church is a living witness that God is active and present.
So is believing in God wishful thinking? Not at all. It is responding to the God who has revealed Himself and continues to reveal Himself. We may not see Him with our physical eyes, but we see His work, hear His voice in Scripture, sense His presence through the Spirit, and experience His faithfulness in our lives. Jesus calls us blessed—not because we believe without evidence, but because we trust the God who is always near, even when unseen.
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Tuesday, April 7, 2026
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