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Sunday, November 1, 2026
When Life Turns On A Dime!
Tuesday, October 27, 2026
Finding Forgiveness
Finding Forgiveness
Finding forgiveness is undeniably one of the most profound and challenging emotional journeys a human being can undertake. When someone we trust or respect causes us deep harm, our natural instinct is to build walls, harbor resentment, and protect ourselves from future pain. Yet, carrying the heavy burden of bitterness only prolongs our suffering, binding us to the very hurt we wish to escape. True healing begins when we realize that forgiveness is not a sign of weakness or an approval of the wrong committed, but rather a courageous choice to release the pain and step into spiritual and emotional freedom.
Scripture provides a timeless roadmap for navigating the difficult terrain of forgiveness, grounding it in the grace we ourselves have received. In Ephesians 4:32, the apostle Paul encourages believers to "be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." This theme is echoed in Colossians 3:13, which reminds us to "bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." These passages shift our perspective from focusing solely on the offense to reflecting on the unconditional forgiveness offered to us by God. When we recognize the depth of grace extended toward our own flaws, extending that same grace to others becomes a vital act of obedience and gratitude.
However, forgiving someone is rarely a one-time event; it is often an ongoing process. In Matthew 18:21–22, Peter asked Jesus how often he should forgive a brother or sister who sinned against him, proposing a seemingly generous seven times. Jesus famously answered, "I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times." Through this response, Jesus emphasized that forgiveness cannot be measured by a strict tally or limited by human impatience. Instead, it must become a continuous posture of the heart. Mark 11:25 underscores the spiritual importance of this practice, instructing us that when we stand praying, if we hold anything against anyone, we must forgive them so that our Father in heaven may also forgive our sins. Clearing our hearts of resentment ensures that our relationship with God remains unhindered and vibrant.
The real-world practice of radical forgiveness is powerfully illustrated in the life of Corrie Ten Boom, a Christian woman who survived the horrors of a Nazi concentration camp. Years after World War II, after speaking on God’s forgiveness at a church in Munich, she was approached by a former S.S. guard who had been stationed at the very camp where her sister died. The guard, now a Christian, reached out his hand and asked for her forgiveness. Corrie recalled feeling completely frozen, unable to feel love or warmth toward the man who had caused her family such immense suffering. In that agonizing moment, she prayed silently, asking God for the strength to obey. As she stretched out her hand to grasp his, a warm, overwhelming wave of divine love flooded her heart. Her experience demonstrates that while we may not feel ready to forgive on our own power, God supplies the grace and strength when we make the decision to obey.
Ultimately, finding forgiveness is a transformative key that unlocks the prison of past hurt. It does not erase memory or automatically restore broken trust, but it dissolves the power that bitterness holds over our future. As you reflect on your own life and the relationships that may carry unresolved pain, remember that you do not have to carry the weight alone. By leaning into God's word and relying on His grace, you can take the brave step of extending your hand, finding peace and healing in the process.
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Sunday, October 18, 2026
Wisdom For Worry
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Tuesday, October 13, 2026
The Christian Life Is Work
If there is one thing that needs to be grasped in the Christian life, it is the fact that it takes work on our part to live the Christian life, and be involved in effective Christian service.
The Apostle Paul encourages us in all that we do, to do it heartily. To live and serve, putting forth as much effort and enthusiasm as we can muster.
The Bible makes it clear that we must depend upon the Lord, for the resources and encouragement, to live and serve. But after we receive these helps, we need to give it all we have, to pursue what God has in store for us. God makes available His Word, for insight, and encouragement. He makes available the opportunities to pray, and to feel His presence.
In Joshua 1: 8 we are told to meditate on God's Word night and day.
We are told in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 to pray without ceasing. We are to press on in pursuing the things of God (Philippians 3:13-14)
The Christian life is to be a life of zeal, and hard work. In all that we do, whether it be in personal growth, or Christian service, we should be ready to work, and work hard.
There is much that needs to be done. We are not finished products, and there are people to reach for the Kingdom. We are encouraged to keep growing as a Christians, and to involve ourselves in the work of the church no matter what it entails, or what it costs.
The word "can't" should never be in our vocabulary. The Apostle Paul said very confidently"I can do all things through Christ who give me strength" (Philippians 4:13)
If one man could turn his life around, and turn the world upside down for Jesus Christ, what is our excuse? GP
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Tuesday, October 6, 2026
Gathering & Scattering
Gathering & Scattering
Thursday, October 1, 2026
A Deep Dark Tunnel Of Despair
Monday, September 28, 2026
Just As I Am!
Just As I Am!
A theme like "Just As I Am" carries a quiet power. It reminds us that the starting point of grace is never perfection, but honest surrender.
My son Nathan recently shared a phrase someone had told him: “Nobody’s perfect.” It’s a common saying, but it opens the door to a deeper truth. I told him, “Oh, but there was One who was perfect — Jesus Christ.” During His earthly life, He lived in flawless obedience to the Father. His perfection wasn’t distant or cold; it was purposeful, offered as the perfect sacrifice for our sins.
When I look back over my own life, I see clearly how imperfect I was. I was caught up in worldliness, sin, and self‑direction. Even as a pastor, I found myself living far from the will of the Lord Jesus. It wasn’t rebellion as much as drifting — slow, subtle, and dangerous. But the Lord, in His mercy, opened my eyes. Not long ago, I realized just how far away I had wandered. In that moment of clarity, I surrendered my life to Christ anew. I determined that I would allow Jesus not only to be my Savior, but also the Lord of my life — the One who guides, corrects, restores, and leads.
I still have a long way to go. Every believer does. But my confidence is not in my progress; it is in His perfect sacrifice and His perfect guidance. I trust Him to shape me into the person I need to be in His eyes. He does not ask me to come polished, impressive, or flawless. He calls me to come just as I am — repentant, willing, and ready to follow.
Where are you in your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ? Have you surrendered your life to Him, allowing Him to be both Savior and Lord? You can, today. The message of salvation is not complicated or unreachable. Acts 2:38 gives us a clear and beautiful promise: “Repent and be baptized… and you will receive the forgiveness of sins and the gift of the Holy Spirit.” Two life‑changing realities unfold when we respond in faith:
- Cleansing of sins — the burden of guilt is lifted, washed away by Christ’s blood.
- The gift of the Holy Spirit — God Himself dwelling within us, guiding, strengthening, and transforming.
In this faith‑based salvation process, we place our lives "in Christ" — held securely in His loving, eternal care. We do not earn this standing; we receive it. We do not perfect ourselves; He perfects us. We do not come worthy; He makes us worthy.
Just as I am — that is how He invites us. And just as He is — perfect, holy, merciful — that is how He receives us.
but that thy blood was shed for me,
and that thou bidd'st me come to thee,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
to rid my soul of one dark blot,
to thee, whose blood can cleanse each spot,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
with many a conflict, many a doubt,
fightings and fears within, without,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
because thy promise I believe,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come.
Psalter Hymnal, (Gray)
Wednesday, September 23, 2026
The Church: An Event Center, Or A Family Gathering?
The Church: An Event Center, Or A Family Gathering?
A church becomes spiritually alive when it feels less like an event center and more like a family gathering. A family environment creates belonging, trust, and shared purpose — the very qualities that help a congregation grow in both numbers and spiritual maturity. When people walk into a church and sense warmth, genuine interest, and relational depth, they are far more likely to stay, serve, and invite others. Scripture consistently teaches that the body of Christ is meant to function as a spiritual household, not a weekly assembly of strangers.
The New Testament repeatedly emphasizes this family identity. Paul writes, *“So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another”* (Romans 12:5). This is not the language of spectators; it is the language of family. Likewise, Hebrews 10:24–25 urges believers to “consider one another” and to “stir up love and good works,” reminding us that gathering is not merely about worship and preaching but about mutual encouragement and connection. Jesus Himself declared, *“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another”* (John 13:35). Love expressed in family-like relationships is the church’s greatest witness to the outside world.
Many churches unintentionally drift into a “come, sit, listen, leave” pattern. Worship becomes a performance, sermons become lectures, and fellowship becomes optional. But people today — especially in small-town communities are longing for connection. They want a place where they are known, valued, and supported. Developing a family environment begins with intentional relationship-building. This includes greeting people warmly, learning names, sharing meals, praying together, and creating spaces where members can talk, laugh, and carry one another’s burdens. When a church prioritizes relationships, it becomes a spiritual home rather than a weekly obligation. And the pastor, and those in spiritual leadership, must lead out in developing this type of family environment.
A family environment also motivates spiritual growth. In a healthy family, people encourage one another, challenge one another, and help one another grow. The same dynamic strengthens the church. Small groups, prayer circles, mentoring relationships, and shared service projects create opportunities for believers to grow in faith through meaningful interaction. When people feel connected, they become more receptive to teaching, more committed to ministry, and more willing to invite others into the fellowship.
The witness of a family-oriented church is powerful. Outsiders notice when a congregation genuinely loves one another. They see humility, kindness, and selflessness lived out in real relationships. A church that treats its members like family becomes a beacon of hope in the community. People are drawn to environments where they feel safe, welcomed, and supported. A loving church reflects the heart of Christ, and that reflection attracts those who are searching for meaning and belonging.
The path forward is simple but intentional: cultivate relationships, practice hospitality, encourage fellowship, and build a culture where every person matters. When a church embraces its identity as the family of God, growth becomes a natural outcome — not because of programs or performances, but because love is the strongest invitation of all.
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Monday, September 14, 2026
The Joy Of The Lord Is Your Strength!
The Joy Of The Lord Is Your Strength!
There are seasons in life when we pursue almost anything to find happiness, security, or a sense of stability. We chase accomplishments, possessions, routines, and even people, hoping they will hold us steady when life becomes difficult. Yet when our world begins to crumble, those very things we trusted often prove unable to sustain us.
Israel learned this lesson firsthand. After years of neglecting God’s law and drifting from His will, the people gathered as Ezra read the Scriptures aloud. As the truth washed over them, they realized how far they had wandered. Their hearts were pierced, and grief settled upon them. They wept because they finally saw the depth of their disobedience.
But Nehemiah spoke a surprising word: “Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” Their sorrow was real, but it was not meant to be their final resting place. God was calling them out of despair and into renewal. He instructed them to enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and to share with those who had nothing prepared.
This day was holy, not because of their perfection, but because of God’s mercy. Their strength would not come from guilt or fear, but from the joy found in His presence.
What does this mean for us today? It reminds us that true strength does not come from the things we chase or the security we try to build on our own. Strength comes from the Lord Himself. His joy is not a shallow emotion; it is the deep, abiding confidence that God is faithful, forgiving, and present.
When we return to Him, He does not leave us in our sorrow. He lifts us, restores us, and fills us with a joy that steadies the heart. The people of Israel discovered that obedience brings blessing, and repentance brings renewal. Their grief opened the door for God’s joy to enter.
Imagine a man leaning all his weight on a wooden fence he built himself. For a while it holds him, and he feels secure. But one day the fence begins to crack, and suddenly it collapses beneath him. He falls hard, realizing the structure he trusted was never strong enough to support him. Then someone comes and offers him a solid stone wall—firm, unshakable, able to bear any weight he places upon it. That wall is the joy of the Lord. Everything else we lean on eventually gives way, but God’s joy remains steady and strong.
The message of Nehemiah 8:10 is clear: sorrow may awaken us, but joy strengthens us. When we turn back to God, He does not push us away—He welcomes us with grace. His joy becomes our foundation, our confidence, and our strength for every step ahead.
Final Word: Lean on the Lord today. Let His joy steady your heart, renew your hope, and give you strength for whatever comes next.
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Thursday, September 10, 2026
A Somber September Day To Remember!
Monday, September 7, 2026
Perfecting Patience
Perfecting Patience
Patience is one of the hardest virtues to practice, especially when life places us in seasons of discomfort, uncertainty, or slow recovery. James reminds us of this truth when he writes, “Brothers and sisters, as an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord… You have heard of Job’s perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.” (James 5:11-12) These words are not abstract theology; they speak directly to the real experiences we face—like illness, surgery, and the long road of healing that follows. I’ll be honest: I am not naturally a patient person. As I recover from surgery to remove a large kidney stone, there are days when I want the healing to be finished now. But as many of you know, recovery takes time, and impatience doesn’t make the process any shorter.
James points us to the prophets and to Job as examples of perseverance. They endured hardship not because they enjoyed suffering, but because they trusted the character of God. Job’s story especially reminds us that God sees the whole picture even when we only see the painful moment we’re in. The prophets spoke faithfully even when their circumstances were difficult. Their patience was not passive; it was a steady confidence in God’s compassion and mercy. That same confidence is available to us today. We don’t have to conquer the entire journey at once. We simply take one day at a time, trusting that God is working even when progress feels slow.
An illustration comes to mind. A farmer plants seed in the spring, but he cannot force the crop to grow faster by staring at the field. He waters, he waits, he trusts the process. If he panics on day three because nothing has sprouted, he forgets that growth happens beneath the surface long before it appears above the ground. Healing is much the same. God is doing work inside us—physically, emotionally, spiritually—that we cannot see yet. Our impatience often comes from wanting visible results before the invisible work is complete.
Finally, patience is not just a virtue we admire; it is one of the fruit of the Spirit. That means it is not something we manufacture on our own. It is something God grows in us as we walk with Him. Developing patience strengthens our faith, steadies our emotions, and deepens our trust in God’s timing. Whether we are recovering from surgery, facing a difficult season, or simply navigating the frustrations of daily life, patience reminds us that God is present, God is working, and God is faithful. And as James assures us, the Lord is full of compassion and mercy.
[ A Thank you for all the prayers, while I had surgery, and recovery for a kidney stone removal ]
Perfecting Patience - Study Guide
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Monday, August 31, 2026
Dismayed Or Determined?
Tuesday, August 25, 2026
The Basis For Our Significance
The Basis For Our Significance
Every generation wrestles with the question of significance. People today are striving harder than ever to achieve a sense of worth in the eyes of the world. They chase prominence, position, talent, possessions, power, and authority. They long for applause, recognition, and influence. In a matter of speaking, many would love to have people “fall at their feet” and admire the ground they walk on. But is this where our significance is found? Is this where our value is rooted? Is this the path God intended for His people?
The apostle Paul wrestled with this very question. Before Christ transformed his life, Paul had everything the world could offer: education, reputation, religious authority, and social standing. If anyone could boast in worldly significance, it was Paul. Yet he came to a startling conclusion — all of it was worthless compared to knowing Christ.
He writes in Philippians 3:8, “What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ.” Paul finally realized that the pursuit of worldly avenues to personal significance was rubbish compared to knowing Jesus Christ and living in the purpose Christ had for him.
The World’s Path to Significance Falls Short
The world tells us that significance comes from achievement, accumulation, and admiration. But none of these things can satisfy the deepest longing of the human heart. They fade. They shift. They disappoint. And even when people reach the top, they often discover that the top is empty.
The world’s version of significance is fragile. God’s version is eternal.
Imagine a man who spends his whole life building a grand sandcastle on the beach. He shapes it, decorates it, and protects it. People walk by and admire his work. Some even take pictures. He feels important — for a moment. But then the tide comes in. The waves don’t ask permission. They don’t care how hard he worked. They simply wash it all away.
That is what worldly significance is like. It looks impressive for a time, but it cannot withstand the tide of eternity. Only what is built on Christ will last.
Where True Significance Begins
True significance begins with humility — not self‑hatred, not low self‑esteem, but a right understanding of who we are in relation to God. James 4:10 tells us, “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.” When we humble ourselves, God Himself lifts us up. When we place others before ourselves, God honors that posture. When we put the Lord first, and in so doing minister to others, we discover a significance that the world cannot give and cannot take away.
Our significance is not found in what we accomplish, but in Whose we are. Our value is not determined by the world’s applause, but by the Savior’s love. Our importance is not measured by earthly success, but by our participation in the growth and development of God’s kingdom.
The Joy of Serving Others
When we serve others in the name of Christ, we step into the very purpose for which we were created. We begin to see how God uses our lives, our words, our kindness, and our faithfulness to bless others. We discover that our significance is not tied to our status, but to our service.
And the beautiful truth is this: we never have to doubt how valuable we are to God. He sees every act of obedience. He honors every step of faith. He delights in every moment we choose His kingdom over our own.
A Final Word
The world will always offer counterfeit significance. It will always tempt us to build sandcastles that cannot survive the tide. But Christ offers something better — a significance rooted in His love, His purpose, and His eternal kingdom.
Paul found it. We can find it. And when we do, we will never again wonder whether our lives matter. In Christ, they matter eternally.
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Saturday, August 22, 2026
How To Live This Life, In This World
In this time of terrorism, economic challenge, and consistent immorality, how do we as Christians, live the life, God wants us to live? How do we stay focused, and faithful to living the truth that is found in God's Word?
Thursday, August 13, 2026
About The Future
About The Future
There is a quiet but profound truth found in the words of the apostle John: “And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.” (1 John 2:17). Those words speak directly to one of the deepest questions people carry in their hearts—What will my future hold? It’s a question asked in moments of uncertainty, in seasons of change, and sometimes in the stillness of the night when worries rise to the surface.
Many people wish they could look into some kind of crystal ball and see what tomorrow will bring. They imagine how comforting it would be to know the twists and turns of life ahead of time. Yet God, in His wisdom, chose not to give us that ability. He knew that if we could see the exact details of our future—especially the day and hour when our earthly life would end—our days would be filled not with peace, but with anxiety, fear, and despair.
Instead of giving us the ability to see the future, God gave us something far better: the ability to trust Him with it. While we cannot know what tomorrow holds, we can know the One who holds tomorrow. And that changes everything.
The apostle John reminds us that this present world, with all its desires, distractions, and temptations, is temporary. It is passing away. The things people chase—status, possessions, pleasures, recognition—may shine brightly for a moment, but they fade just as quickly. They cannot offer lasting security, lasting joy, or lasting hope. They are temporary answers to eternal questions.
But John also gives us a promise: “Whoever does the will of God abides forever.” That is where real hope begins. Doing the will of God is not about checking off religious boxes or trying to earn His approval. It begins with one essential step—establishing a saving relationship with His Son, Jesus Christ. Without Jesus Christ, there is no lasting future. With Him, there is eternal life, eternal joy, and eternal peace. When we place our lives in His hands, we are not simply preparing for a better tomorrow—we are preparing for forever.
Planning for a bright future does not mean knowing every detail of what lies ahead. It means choosing whom we will trust as we walk into the unknown. When we choose Christ, we choose a future that cannot be taken away. The world cannot promise us a bright future. It can offer moments of happiness, but it cannot offer lasting hope. It can offer temporary comfort, but it cannot offer eternal security. In this life, Jesus Himself told us we would face trouble. But He also told us that in Him, we would find peace. That peace is not fragile. It does not depend on circumstances. It does not rise and fall with the changing tides of life. It is anchored in the eternal love and faithfulness of God.
When we place our lives with Christ now, we are choosing to abide with Him forever. There is no greater future than that. The world may pass away, but the promises of God stand firm. The desires of this world may fade, but the joy found in Christ endures. The uncertainties of life may trouble us, but the hope we have in Jesus remains steady and strong. In Him we find joy that lifts the heart, peace that calms the mind, and hope that brightens every step of the journey.
So while we may never know exactly what tomorrow holds, we can know this: if our lives are anchored in Jesus Christ, our future is secure. Our eternity is bright. And our hope is unshakable. It truly doesn’t get better than this.
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