What A Cardinal Can Do, Christ Has Done

 

What a Cardinal Can Do, Christ Has Done.

On a gray winter morning, the world can feel muted. The sky hangs low, the trees stand bare, and the landscape seems wrapped in a blanket of dullness. Everything looks still lifeless, and cold. But then—without warning—a brilliant red cardinal sweeps into the scene. Suddenly the whole picture changes. The splash of color transforms the dreariness into something hopeful, almost joyful. One small bird shifts the atmosphere.

Our spiritual lives can feel a lot like that winter landscape. Before Christ, we carry the weight of our old selves—habits that drain us, desires that deceive us, and patterns that leave us feeling dim, discouraged, and stuck. The apostle Paul understood this well. Writing to the believers in Ephesus, he urged them to step away from the old darkened way of life and embrace something entirely new—something only Jesus can create within us.

Paul writes that we are called “to put off your old self… and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds  and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.” (Ephesians 4:22–24)

This isn’t a self-improvement project. It isn’t a matter of trying harder or polishing up the outside. It is transformation—deep, soul-level renewal that only Christ can accomplish. What the cardinal does to a bleak winter scene, Jesus does to the human heart. He brings color where there was only gray. He brings life where there was only coldness. He brings hope where there was only heaviness.

Like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, we are invited to shed the old and step into the new. Jesus doesn’t just brighten our lives—He recreates them. He reshapes our desires, renews our minds, and restores our identity. He changes the look of our lives both inside and out.

The winter scene cannot brighten itself. The cardinal must enter. In the same way, we cannot transform ourselves. Christ must come in. And when He does, everything changes.

Prayer:  

Lord Jesus, thank You for stepping into the gray places of our lives with Your transforming presence. Help us to put off our old selves and fully embrace the new life You offer. Renew our minds, reshape our desires, and make us more like You in righteousness and holiness. Bring Your color, Your hope, and Your life into every part of us. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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THE CHRISTIAN JOURNEYMAN (January/2026)

 

The Authenticity Of Jesus Christ 

 "He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by Him all things were created that are in heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers. All things were created through Him and for Him." 

(Colossians 1:15-16)

 When someone comes on the world scene, and teaches divine truth with great authority, performs such wonderful miracles, and places Himself in line with Old Testament prophecy, and by His life, ministry, death, burial, and resurrection, fulfills it, right down to the nail; would you question His authenticity? Many do even today. 

Many question the physical evidence, but when I look at the spiritual evidence, (especially the way He has worked in my life) Jesus has given me inner strength after I spent much time in prayer. He has taught me, and encouraged me, with His Word, when I was going through some rough times. He has provided healing when I when through some health issues. He has provided for me, and my family faithfully. Jesus has been with me as I performed the tasks of pastoral ministry. I couldn't have done it all, without His help. Now that is my evidence. for me. 

To know the authenticity of Jesus, is in your fellowship with Him, every single day. The more you spend time with Him, the more you experience the reality of His person, and presence. I read something that really made me think about the time I spend with the Lord Jesus Christ: 

"If you are really overwhelmed, it may be that you are spending more time with the world, that you are with the Lord."

Each person has to experience Jesus Christ for themselves. 

Today instead of being filled with questions, let's discover what only Jesus can provide. The blessing of His presence, and the fulfillment of His promises for our lives! GP

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THE TRUTH, AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH 

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THE NEW YEAR BUNDLE FOR 2026(A LOOK AT TIME) 

Top Priority In 2026

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Plans For You 

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As Time Goes By 

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SERMON STREET 

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A LIGHT UNTO MY PATH (TCJ-Bible Study) 

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God's Word On It! 

Critical Compromise 

"Nevertheless, to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind." (Philippians 3:16)

I like what I read on a website published by the Church of The Brethren * " In a Utopian world, there would be no conflict, and perhaps, in a perfect church, no disagreement. But in reality, the church is not perfect. It is a human organization. We have distinct perspectives that sometimes lead to disagreements, and occasionally, to conflict. Conflict in itself is not necessarily destructive; conflict can be constructive when it is processed in a spiritually healthy manner." 

(https://www.brethren.org/ac/statements/2004-congregational-disagreements/)

There are churches today that find themselves in conflict with their conference organizations over various issues that challenge their beliefs and practices. In many churches today, we are facing what 

I call "a critical compromise." We won't stand up for Biblical truth, but bow to moral leniency. 

My experience as a pastor for almost fifty years, has been in the service of the (Christian Churches/Churches of Christ-Restoration Movement).

I have never been a pastor responsible to, or the beneficiary of a conference organization. 

But it has been my belief and practice to have in first place; the preaching and teaching of The Word of God. To me the Word of God is the complete and final authority, in all that we believe, teach, and practice. 

What is the apostle Paul talking about when He states in our text: "Let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind?" He is calling us as individual Christians (who make up the body of Christ) to strive to be like Christ, and to live out His teachings in our lives. How do we do that, if we don't live out the Word of God in our lives? 

And the church is to lead out in this pursuit. Whether it is as individual Christians, or a church that is governed by a supervisory council, or a church of independent means. We are to abide by the teaching of the Word of God, instead of human idealism or emotion. We are never to twist the Word of God to fit our agenda, but we are to allow the Word of God to have the final Word in all that we do in our Christian experience. 

The apostle Paul tells Timothy what the purpose of the Word of God is in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (Please read) I don't see in those two verses, the wisdom, or ideas of man mentioned as the means to help the (man) of God to be "complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." (v.17) 

Who is our divine, ultimate teacher? It is the Holy Spirit! (John 16:14-15 Please read) 

The apostle Paul describes our responsibility as Christians, whether we are in Christian leadership, or members of the body of Christ in 

2 Corinthians 4:7 "But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us." We are the earthen vessels in which the glorious truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ has been poured. 

But we must remember, that we are not to add to God's Word, or take anything away (Revelation 22:19-20; but abide by the Word of our true Vine, Jesus Christ (John 15:1-5) We are to live it out in our own lives, share it with those who need to be saved, and directed by it, (Romans 10:17).

God's Word is the complete and final authority to help us have a final and complete fit, so we will be ready when the Lord returns to take us home to be with Him forever. GP  

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POEM PANTRY 

Present Tense

By Nathan Patterson

Present tense is here.

Our future is what lies ahead.

Letting go of the past.

Moving into a new year.

Choosing to live in the moment.

Throwing away all the memories of yesterday.

Cherishing what is apart of this time zone.

In every possible sense.

Were never alone in the present tense. 

His Unfailing Presence

Another year I enter

Its history unknown;

Oh, how my feet would tremble

To tread its paths alone!

But I have heard a whisper,

I know I shall be blest;

"My presence shall go with thee,

And I will give thee rest."

What will the New Year bring me?

I may not, must not know;

Will it be love and rapture,

Or loneliness and woe?

Hush! Hush! I hear His whisper;

I surely shall be blest;

"My presence shall go with thee,

And I will give thee rest."

(Unknown Author) 

Just One Request

Dear Master for this coming year

Just one request I bring:

I do not pray for happiness,

Or any earthly thing—

I do not ask to understand

The way Thou leadest me,

But this I ask: Teach me to do

The thing that pleaseth Thee.

I want to know Thy guiding voice,

To walk with Thee each day.

Dear Master make me swift to hear

And ready to obey.

And thus the year I now begin

A happy year will be—

If I am seeking just to do

The thing that pleaseth Thee.

(Unknown Author) 

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Christmas Challenges (Part Four)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Four) 

The Challenge Of The Future 

"But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in here heart." (Luke 2:19) 

The gospel writer Luke makes a stunning statement concerning Mary's response to all the happenings surrounding the birth of Jesus. He says that Mary "pondered" or "weighed" all these things in her heart. The popular song asks Mary the question: "Mary Did You Know?" 

In essence, Mary did you really get a hold of the significance of this special Child that you brought into the world? How important was His mission to be the 'Savior" of the world? 

I can't help but think that in this pondering, Mary is thinking about the future for God's baby Boy. How will the future events play out in the life of Jesus? How will this special Child of God deal with the challenge of the future? 

As we look at our own lives, how do we deal with the challenge of the future? Is it with excitement, or is it with great dread? We will be coming into a new year of 2026; and in this new year, what will motivate us to enter it with confidence and enthusiasm? 

The Hebrew writer has some words concerning the attitude that Jesus held as He faced the challenge of the future. "...looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of God." (Hebrews 12:2) Did Jesus have joy in the experience of the cross? Certainly not! His joy was founded in in what the cross would mean for the world...for you and me. 

Like Mary we can "ponder" how Jesus has made a difference in our lives; in our past, and present. No doubt life is made up of ups and downs, twists and turns. And the Lord Jesus Christ keeps us in the balance when our circumstances crumble around us. 

Our foundation of Jesus Christ is strong and sure. As Mary saw this Child that she carried, was victorious all the way to eternity; we like her, can hold on to a great hope for the future. That whatever comes our way, we know that the Lord Jesus Christ will help us to be victorious, and to arrive safely to our eternal home! (John 14:1-3) 

Christmas Challenges (Part Three)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Three) 

THE CHALLENGE OF FORGIVENESS 

 "And she will bring forth a Son, and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins." "In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace." (Matthew 1:21, Ephesians 1:7) 

"There was a king who had suffered much from his rebellious subjects. But one day they surrendered their arms, threw themselves at his feet, and begged for mercy. He pardoned them all. One of his friends said to him, “Did you not say that every rebel should die?” “Yes,” replied the king, “but I see no rebels here.” (Ministry 127) 

 We could boldly say that the purpose of the Christ-Child coming to this world, was to save the world from sin. In the center of this salvation is forgiveness of our sins. By accepting Jesus as our Savior, we are receiving the forgiveness that God wants us to have. But the challenge at Christmas is two-fold. 

First Of All, The Challenge Of Receiving This Forgiveness. 

Jesus gave His life as a sacrifice for our sins, but we must in faith reach out to obtain it. That means that we must be like these rebellious subjects in our story. We must surrender our lives totally to our Lord, and Savior Jesus Christ. The challenge at Christmas, as well as all through the year, is that people refuse to look to Jesus, to liberate them from the chains of sin, self, and guilt. The world can be a place where we can have a good time, especially at Christmas. A place where we can have temporary thrills, to make us feel good about life for a time. 

But the world can never provide the deep need for a right relationship with God. That inner peace, and contentment that only God can provide through His Son. To feel forgiven from a sinful, and self-pursuing lifestyle, is only found in our total surrender to Jesus our Savior. 

Will we do it today? 

Secondly, The Challenge Of Showing This Forgiveness. 

In the process of everyday living, we end up hurting others, and being hurt by others. If there one thing that is hard for people to do, it is to forgive. When we make a fist, and we hold that fist tightly over a period of time, it doesn't feel very good. We can feel the tension getting worse, and worse. It's only when we release that fist, that the tension goes away, and we feel better. That's what forgiveness does for our hearts. The challenge is that we make a fist with our hearts, and we hold on to the hurt, and those bitter feelings, so long, that the misery becomes so overwhelming. How much better to forgive, and release those terrible bitter feelings. Even if those who have hurt us, have no intention of apologizing, and making things right, it is still is a very healing balm for our hearts. 

 Our awesome, loving, God wants us to be forgiven, and to exercise forgiveness. He has done His part through His Son. Will we do our part, and submit to His will, and His care? The heart of the challenge of forgiveness, is that it is a choice that we must make!

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Christmas Challenges (Series - Part Two)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Two) 

THE CHALLENGE OF FAMILY 

 "Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not wanting to make her (Mary) a public example, was minded to put her away secretly. But while he thought about these things, behold an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, "Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take to you Mary your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit." (Matthew 1:19-20) 

How can family be a Christmas challenge? It was for Mary and Joseph. Here Mary is with child before they came together as husband and wife. It is not mentioned in the text how her family felt about this discovery. 

I am sure it was with shock and unbelief, along with a severe disappointment with Mary. In other words, "Mary how could you have done such a thing? How are we going to explain this, not only to our family and friends, but to the religious order?" 

And here in the midst of the betrothal, what is Joseph to do? 

He is to become apart of the family, but now he must decide what to do with Mary. He does not want to put her life in danger as we find in Deuteronomy 22:23-24 (Please read), but to divorce her quietly. 

In her family's defense, along with Joseph, we can understand their initial response. But an angel came to Joseph in a dream, and assured him that it is the will of God that he take Mary as his wife. Because the baby she is carrying, was conceived by the Holy Spirit. And the question comes to my mind, would her family and friends, and the religious order, accept that truth? 

 It is evident to me, that Mary and Joseph felt alone in the decision they made. I don't see the family support in this. She now is in the category of being like a prostitute, and they would not have that taint the reputation of the family. Do we see the challenge yet? I'm sure we do. 

The question I want us to look at is" "In what Mary and Joseph went through, how does this apply to us today?" I believe that in many families today, the total focus of the Christ Child is not happening at Christmas. Yes, the materialistic side of Christmas is pursued, as we get into the purchase of gifts. The pleasurable side of Christmas is enjoyed, as we plan and participate in social parties and family gatherings. 

And if your family is not into the total worship of the Lord Jesus Christ, and of putting Jesus, the Christ Child first at Christmas, there will be a misunderstanding of priorities in the family. "Why are you going to church for a Christmas eve service?" "Why are you always talking about why Jesus came into this world?" "Why do you care so much about the needs of others at Christmas?" "Shouldn't you be focused on having fun, and self fulfillment?" 

Like Mary and Joseph we feel alone in our worship and total focus of the Christ-Child. But there comes an inner peace, as we draw near to the Lord. In this worship, God comes to us, and His presence embraces us, and makes us feel that we are not alone, but that He is with us. 

He is Emmanuel - God with us always! 

In spite of the challenges of family, when we put the Christ-Child first, and let everything else about Christmas be placed down the list of priorities, it Is then, that we will feel that we are having more than a "White Christmas", but we are having a "Right Christmas!" GP 

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Christmas Challenges (Part One)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part One) 

The Challenge of Focus

There are those faulty misconceptions, selfish attitudes and actions, and worldly activities that challenge the biblical message, and meaning of Christmas. How does the birth of the Christ-Child cause us to think and act in the right way, during this Christmas season? There are challenges that we face as Christians, at Christmas, as well as all year long; that I want us to look at in this series entitled: Christmas Challenges. 

We will look at four of them: 

1. The Challenge of Focus 

2. The Challenge of Family 

3. The Challenge of Forgiveness 

4. The Challenge of the Future 

The Challenge of Focus 

"Has anyone ever asked you this question? "What did the pastor preach on last Sunday?" You smile, and cringe inside, racking your brain for the subject or verse he used. If you have never been caught in this predicament, what you were trying to remember was a blur in your mind. I think this happens to all of us, and we need to let it be a reminder, to stay focused on the preaching of God's Word. ("Staying Focused" By Terrie Chapell - January 30,2010 Ministry 127) 

When it comes to the message and meaning of the birth of the Christ-Child, we don't want to be like a camera out of focus. Our goal should be to have a clear, steadfast focus on the Biblical presentation and purpose of the angel's announcement to the shepherds, and to the world. 

"Do not be afraid, for behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people, "for there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." (Luke 2:10-11) 

I believe there are two words in the angel's announcement that should cut through the blur of the mis-conceptions, and the dominance of the worldly attitudes and activities at Christmas. Those two words are: 

"to you" This announcement is not just a prophetic message, it is a personal message. "For there is born "to you" this day...a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." 

Jesus came into this world to be a Savior for you, and for me. 

The challenge this Christmas, as well as everyday, is to focus on this heavenly gift to us. We need to accept this gift, believe the gift, submit and embrace this gift with all of our heart. 

 Let's not let the confusion and chaos at Christmas cause us to have a spiritual blur of what is most significant, and meaningful at Christmas, and everyday of our lives. If Jesus (as our heavenly gift) is to be Savior, and Lord of our lives. May it be the main focus of our hearts, and our lives. May it be seen in our lives, not only at Christmas, but every moment we live! GP 

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Peace In The Midst Of Change

 

Peace In The Midst Of Change

Have you ever had life turn on a dime? Things were going good, not perfect, but very doable. And then something happened to turn just about everything upside down. That's happened to a lot of people; it has happened to me. Well here are some Biblical insights that I hope will help in the healing and restoration process.

Peace in the Midst of Change

Scripture

"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever." — Hebrews 13:8  

Reflection

Life can shift in an instant. A job loss, a health diagnosis, a move, or unexpected news can leave us feeling shaken and desperate to return to “normal.” Stress rises when the ground beneath us feels unstable. Yet Scripture reminds us that while circumstances change, God does not change.  

Hebrews 13:8 anchors us in this truth: Jesus is constant. His love, His promises, and His presence remain steady even when everything else feels uncertain. When the storm rages, He is the calm. When routines collapse, He is the Rock.  

Think of the disciples in the boat during the storm (Mark 4:35–41). Waves crashed, fear consumed them, and yet Jesus was present. With a word, He brought peace. In the same way, He speaks peace into our chaos today.  

Encouragement

God is your stability: Even if life feels upside down, His character never shifts.  

You don’t have to fix everything at once: God invites you to rest in Him while He works.  

Peace is possible now: Not when things return to “normal,” but right here in the middle of change.  

Prayer

Lord, You know the stress and fear that sudden changes bring. Thank You that You never change, even when everything else does. Help me to trust You as my anchor. Speak peace into my heart and guide me step by step. Remind me that You are faithful yesterday, today, and forever. Amen.  

Practical Step

Take five minutes today to pause and breathe deeply. As you inhale, whisper: “God is with me.” As you exhale, whisper: “I will trust Him.” Repeat until your heart begins to rest in His unchanging presence.  

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Family Expectations

"While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.”But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.” (Matthew 12:46-50) 

From our text, we see where Jesus places his family, in regards to His relationship with the Heavenly Father, and His purpose.

While Jesus was speaking to the people, His family show up, and want to speak to Him. Jesus gave a surprising response in the words of our text. In what He said, is Jesus saying that family is not important? No, but family is not to be more important than our relationship to God. and our ministry for Him.

But the irony of it is, that if we place God as first and foremost in our lives, our family relationships will be better, as well as all, of our relationships. God will show us from His Word, how we are to treat each other, and how we can minister to one another.

The main goal of our lives is to do the will of our Heavenly Father. In many families there are many expectations. And for some, if you don't meet those expectations, you are treated coldly. Some family members will not speak to one another for a long period of time because of this.

The greatest commandments are the expectations of our Heavenly Father. We are to love Him, with all that we have, and we are to love each other unconditionally. Yes, it is a matter of priorities, and a matter of humility and submission.

I know that even when I mess up and do not live up to the expectations of God, that He still loves me, and will not abandon me. We all need to get a grip on what is greatly important and adjust to fulfilling the will of God in all of our lives. GP

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Precious Thanksgiving Memories

 

Precious Thanksgiving Memories

"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change." (James 1:17)

One the precious gifts the Lord has given me is a Thanksgiving memory illustrated in our post-article photo. I remember watching my grandmother meticulously cook and tend to the turkey for our Thanksgiving dinner. I remember the many TG dinners, where she cooked for a house full of family and friends. I hope you have good Thanksgiving memories as well.

As Christmas looms on the horizon, we focus on the gift giving at Christmas, in hopes that we find our loved ones that one and perfect gift. In our text, we can agree with James, that our best efforts at gift giving, cannot compare with the gifts that come from our "Father of lights."

Of course, what can compare to the gift of His Son, who was given, to meet our desperate need of salvation, and the hope of eternal life. (John 3:16)

But In looking back on the year, leading right up to Christmas, God has given me, and my family, the gift of His presence, and providence in our lives. He has not left any stone unturned. The apostle Paul writes, "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:19)

In God's way, and in His time, the gifts of His love, come pouring into our lives. 

This picture that reflects the love and sacrifice of my grandmother, not only at Thanksgiving, but in the days she was present in my life, reflects the love and sacrifice of our Lord, and Savior Jesus Christ. He came to this world, on behalf of the Father, to bring to us new life, and new hope. Precious Thanksgiving memories, how precious to sooth our souls! GP

You Don't Have To Agree With Them, To Love Them!

 

You Don't Have To Agree With Them, To Love Them!

I remember many times, when I had disagreements with my parents. There were times when I did not speak to my parents because of our sharp disagreements. Looking back now, with both my parents gone home to heaven, it makes me think how wrong this was. 

You don’t have to agree with your parents to love them—the Bible emphasizes honor and respect, not blind agreement. Scripture teaches that honoring parents is about showing care, gratitude, and dignity, even when you differ in beliefs or choices.  

Key Biblical Insights

Honor ≠ Agreement  

  - Exodus 20:12 commands: “Honor your father and your mother…” This is about respect and value, not necessarily adopting their views.  

  - Ephesians 6:2 calls honoring parents “the first commandment with a promise,” linking it to blessing, not conformity.  

Respect in Disagreement  

  - Proverbs 19:26 warns against dishonoring parents, but disagreement itself isn’t dishonor. Dishonor comes from ridicule, neglect, or contempt.  

  - Leviticus 19:3 says, “Each of you must respect your mother and father.” Respect can coexist with differing convictions.  

Love Through Care and Gratitude  

  - Honoring parents includes caring for them in their needs (see Mark 7:10–12 where Jesus rebukes those who neglect parents under religious pretense).  

  - Love is expressed in kindness, patience, and gratitude (1 Corinthians 13), even when perspectives clash.  

Practical Applications

Boundaries with Love  

  - You can respectfully say, “I see things differently,” while still showing kindness and maintaining relationship.  

  - Love means seeking peace (Romans 12:18), not erasing differences.  

Adult Relationships  

  - As children grow, obedience shifts to honor. Adults are not commanded to obey parents in every matter, but to continue showing respect and care.  

Christ’s Example  

  - Jesus Himself honored His earthly parents (Luke 2:51) yet prioritized God’s mission when it diverged from their understanding (Mark 3:31–35). This shows that love and honor can coexist with disagreement.  

Takeaway

The Bible teaches that love for parents is expressed through honor, respect, and care—not through uniformity of thought. You can disagree with their opinions, choices, or worldview, yet still fulfill God’s command to honor them by treating them with dignity, gratitude, and compassion.  

In a small village, every year the Lantern Festival lit up the night sky. A young boy named Wei grew up watching his parents work tirelessly in the rice fields, rarely having time to enjoy the celebrations. He noticed how his father’s hands were calloused and his mother’s back bent from years of labor, yet they never complained—they only smiled when Wei asked about the festival, saying, “One day, you’ll carry the light for us.”

Years passed, and Wei became a skilled craftsman. On the eve of the Lantern Festival, instead of joining his friends, he built two enormous lanterns shaped like cranes—symbols of longevity and respect. He carried them to the village square and lit them himself, dedicating them to his parents. The villagers gathered, marveling at the glowing cranes soaring above the crowd. Wei’s parents, standing quietly at the edge, were moved to tears. For the first time, they didn’t just watch the festival—they were honored at its heart.

From then on, the cranes became a tradition, reminding everyone that honoring one’s parents is not only about gratitude but about lifting them into the light they gave us.

Let's not let our disagreements destroy the time we have with our parents. This is where pride needs to be put aside, to foster wonderful moments and memories, that we can hold on to as we journey through this life.

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Midnight Praise

"But about midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns of praise to God, and the prisoners were listening to them:..." (Acts 16:25) 

What do you do when you go through a tough time? It is a natural tendency to strike out at the negative situation, and grumble and complain the whole time of the experience.

 Would you have done what Paul and Silas did, while they were placed in a prison at Philippi? They had their robes tore off them, and they were beaten with rods (inflicted with many blows) and thrown into prison, (their feet fastened in stocks) (Acts 16:23-24).

Instead of grumbling, and complaining, and focusing on the negative state they were in; they began to pray and to sing hymns of praise. You ask: How could you pray, and thank God for being in a situation like that?

Paul and Silas knew the key to dealing with negative situations.

When you give praise to God, you take the focus off the negative, and place it on the positive. When we count our blessings, it takes the sting of worry, and discouragement out of our hearts.

And secondly, it helps us to focus on (not the problem) but the problem solver-God. Just as God brought us through tough times before, He will do it again. And we give thanks for the love, and faithfulness of God.

And third: Luke wanted his readers to note, as Paul and Silas were praying and singing praises to God, the other prisoners were listening. What an opportunity to be a witness for God.

Yes God is with us at the midnight hour, when all is not right. But the best thing, at all times, is that God is with us! GP

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Are You A Good Christian Soldier?

Are You A Good Christian Soldier?

Today is Veteran's  Day!

A word of deep gratitude from The Christian Journeyman, to our men and women who sacrificed their lives, so that we could enjoy the freedoms, and blessings that come from being a citizen of this great nation. As I think of Veteran's Day, I think about what it means to be a soldier, and especially a Christian soldier. The Apostle Paul writes to Timothy and instructs him to "endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ."(2 Timothy 2:3) I ask you today, do you look at yourself as a soldier of Jesus Christ? And to go a step further, are you a GOOD soldier, of Jesus Christ? The Ephesians 6:10-20, the Apostle Paul tells us that we are engaged in a battle.

A battle not "against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. (Gal.6:12) Because of this conflict, we are encouraged to put on the whole armor of God. Read what that consists of in (Galatians 6:10-20) But back to what the Apostle Paul's instructs Timothy. Two things he tells him he must do, to be a good soldier of Jesus Christ. First: He must not entangle himself in the affairs of this life. He is to be totally committed and focused on His duty to Christ. And Secondly he is to please his commanding officer, Jesus Christ, who enlisted him into the service of the Kingdom.(2 Timothy 2:3-4) In fighting this spiritual battle it will call for faithfulness, and endurance. But we must remember that we could never fight this battle without the resources that the Lord Jesus gives us. So a big thank you to our Veterans, and a sounding word to my fellow Christians.
"Onward Christian Soldiers!" GP 

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The Beauty Of Brokenness

Praise the Lord!For it is good to sing praises to our God; For it is pleasant, and praise is beautiful. The Lord builds up Jerusalem; He gathers together the outcasts of Israel. He heals the brokenhearted, And binds up their wounds. He counts the number of the stars; He calls them all by name. Great is our Lord, and mighty in power; His understanding is infinite. The Lord lifts up the humble; He casts the wicked down to the ground. (Psalm 147:1-6) 

There are times in our lives when we feel like a vase that has been knocked over, and broken in many pieces. Again we ask the question, why am I being broken? Why is my life falling apart? God what is your purpose in this?

Just like a farmer must break the ground to get the soil ready for planting, there are times when God must break us, to get us ready to receive proper correction. There are times when God must break us, in order to bring about proper change. Although we don't like to be broken, God has our ultimate good in mind.

In our text the Psalmist encourages us to give praise to God. "Praise is beautiful" he says. Praise the Lord, that He is a builder, not a destroyer. He gathers the outcasts, He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. He is our awesome creator who counts the stars, and calls them by name. His power is great, His understanding is infinite, He lifts up the humble, and casts down the wicked.

Our God makes things right. And He can do it in each and everyone of our lives. The question is: Will we cooperate with Him? Will we accept our brokenness, as God working to make us better, stronger, more productive for our good, and for His glory? GP

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Thankful For Our Thorn

"Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But He said to me,"My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness." There fore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." (2 Corinthians 12:8-10)

The Apostle Paul was suffering from what he called, "a thorn in the flesh" (v.7). What this problem was, is unknown. But it was something that was severe enough that it tormented him. Three times he pleaded with the Lord to take it away. But the Lord's answer to rely upon Him for His strength to endure, is His answer to us today.

The Lord may not always deliver us from specific suffering situations, for reasons we may not understand. But one thing is for certain, we have the Lord's strength to endure whatever it is that comes our way.
In whatever state of suffering, God wraps His arms around us, and helps us to stand.

In the midst of suffering there are those who feel so useless, and feel that there is no value to their lives any longer. The Apostle Paul came to the conclusion that he would boast of his weaknesses, so that the power of Christ might rest on him.(v.10) In essence Paul was saying: "This is not about me, but about the Lord Jesus Christ, and His power and strength for my life".

The question comes: "In our weaknesses, in our limitations, how can we make a difference for the Lord?" When people look at us, and observe our faith, our determination, our confidence, in the midst of trial, what a witness that is! People will see that we have something they need for their lives.

We are not complaining, or carrying with us a negative attitude everywhere we go. But our lips are giving praise, and our lives are being lived out in confidence, and with a vibrant hope.

We will be be strengthened, and the Lord will be glorified, and we will be making more of a difference, than we ever thought possible. GP

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Fury Of A Family

 

Fury Of A Family 

What does "Fury" mean? It means violent, uncontrolled anger, or wild rage. It can also describe the wild or dangerous force of something, like a storm. Additionally, it can refer to a fierce or violent person."

Can families exhibit "fury"? Indeed they can. I have had an anger problem for years. Blowing up over little petty things that frustrated me. Has it affected my family? Yes, it has. They look at you as being like a volcano, that could erupt at any time. And everytime you do, it causes a lot of bitter feelings, that last through the years. 

It really is a form of selfishness, when you don't stop to think about how your anger affects the other members of your family. 

But anger is not the only way that a family can exhibit fury. Selfish expectations, can stir up negative emotions, and bitter feelings. When the other members expect you to accommodate their every whim and wishes. When you don't measure up to what their selfish standards are, you either lash out in anger, or you isolate yourself from the family, saying, "I do not want anything to do with you ever again!" Is that a form of "fury?"

The Bible offers profound insight into the struggles within families, tracing familial discord back to the earliest chapters of Genesis. Cain and Abel, the first siblings, were torn apart by jealousy and unbridled anger (Genesis 4:1–8), setting a precedent for how sin can fracture even the closest bonds. 

James 4:1–2 asks, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” This reveals that much family conflict stems from internal struggles—pride, envy, selfish ambition—that spill outward. 

Jesus Himself acknowledged that following Him could divide households (Matthew 10:34–36), not because He desired conflict, but because truth often challenges comfort and exposes hidden fractures. Yet Scripture also calls families to reconciliation and peace: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). The fury of families, then, is not new—but neither is the hope for healing through humility, forgiveness, and love.

I am learning to allow the Lord to help me with my anger problem, and my attitude of expectation. Are my emotional outbursts, and unreasonable expectations, doing as James says: "Producing the righteousness of God?" Or are they producing a "family fury" or the fruit of the Spirit, that the apostle Paul mentions in Galatians 5:22-23? GP