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Sunday, November 2, 2025
Thankful For Our Thorn
The Apostle Paul was suffering from what he called, "a thorn in the flesh" (v.7). What this problem was, is unknown. But it was something that was severe enough that it tormented him. Three times he pleaded with the Lord to take it away. But the Lord's answer to rely upon Him for His strength to endure, is His answer to us today.
The Lord may not always deliver us from specific suffering situations, for reasons we may not understand. But one thing is for certain, we have the Lord's strength to endure whatever it is that comes our way.
In whatever state of suffering, God wraps His arms around us, and helps us to stand.
In the midst of suffering there are those who feel so useless, and feel that there is no value to their lives any longer. The Apostle Paul came to the conclusion that he would boast of his weaknesses, so that the power of Christ might rest on him.(v.10) In essence Paul was saying: "This is not about me, but about the Lord Jesus Christ, and His power and strength for my life".
The question comes: "In our weaknesses, in our limitations, how can we make a difference for the Lord?" When people look at us, and observe our faith, our determination, our confidence, in the midst of trial, what a witness that is! People will see that we have something they need for their lives.
We are not complaining, or carrying with us a negative attitude everywhere we go. But our lips are giving praise, and our lives are being lived out in confidence, and with a vibrant hope.
We will be be strengthened, and the Lord will be glorified, and we will be making more of a difference, than we ever thought possible. GP
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Monday, October 27, 2025
Fury Of A Family
Fury Of A Family
What does "Fury" mean? It means violent, uncontrolled anger, or wild rage. It can also describe the wild or dangerous force of something, like a storm. Additionally, it can refer to a fierce or violent person."
Can families exhibit "fury"? Indeed they can. I have had an anger problem for years. Blowing up over little petty things that frustrated me. Has it affected my family? Yes, it has. They look at you as being like a volcano, that could erupt at any time. And everytime you do, it causes a lot of bitter feelings, that last through the years.
It really is a form of selfishness, when you don't stop to think about how your anger affects the other members of your family.
But anger is not the only way that a family can exhibit fury. Selfish expectations, can stir up negative emotions, and bitter feelings. When the other members expect you to accommodate their every whim and wishes. When you don't measure up to what their selfish standards are, you either lash out in anger, or you isolate yourself from the family, saying, "I do not want anything to do with you ever again!" Is that a form of "fury?"
The Bible offers profound insight into the struggles within families, tracing familial discord back to the earliest chapters of Genesis. Cain and Abel, the first siblings, were torn apart by jealousy and unbridled anger (Genesis 4:1–8), setting a precedent for how sin can fracture even the closest bonds.
James 4:1–2 asks, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” This reveals that much family conflict stems from internal struggles—pride, envy, selfish ambition—that spill outward.
Jesus Himself acknowledged that following Him could divide households (Matthew 10:34–36), not because He desired conflict, but because truth often challenges comfort and exposes hidden fractures. Yet Scripture also calls families to reconciliation and peace: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). The fury of families, then, is not new—but neither is the hope for healing through humility, forgiveness, and love.
I am learning to allow the Lord to help me with my anger problem, and my attitude of expectation. Are my emotional outbursts, and unreasonable expectations, doing as James says: "Producing the righteousness of God?" Or are they producing a "family fury" or the fruit of the Spirit, that the apostle Paul mentions in Galatians 5:22-23? GP
Monday, October 20, 2025
Walking On The Water
Walking On The Water
Friday, October 10, 2025
Realigning Our Relationships
Realigning Our Relationships
Our relationship with Jesus Christ is the most important because it anchors our identity, purpose, and eternal destiny in divine love and truth. Through Him, we receive forgiveness, grace, and a restored connection with God, which no earthly achievement or relationship can replace. Jesus offers peace in suffering, hope in uncertainty, and unconditional love that transforms our hearts and lives. He is not just a historical figure or moral teacher—He is the living Savior who walks with us daily, guiding, healing, and empowering us to live with meaning and compassion. In Him, we find the fullness of life both now and forever.
Realigning our relationships begins with our relationship with our Savior, and Lord Jesus Christ. If this relationship is solid, it will help our other relationships to be good as well. Realigning relationships through a biblical lens involves embracing principles of reconciliation, forgiveness, love, and humility. Here are some key insights drawn from Scripture:
1. Reconciliation Is a Divine Calling
- 2 Corinthians 5:18 – “God… hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation.”
We're called to mend broken relationships just as God reconciled us to Himself through Christ.
- Matthew 5:24 – “First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”
Reconciliation is prioritized even above religious rituals.
Jesus prayed in His prayer in John 17, that we as His disciples, His followers, that we be one, as He and the Father are one. the apostle Paul writes to the church at Ephesus, that we are to "endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace." (Ephesians 4:3)
2. Forgiveness Is Foundational
- Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate… forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Forgiveness is not optional—it’s a reflection of divine grace.
- Matthew 6:14 – “If you forgive other people… your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Our forgiveness of others is tied to our own spiritual renewal.
We must remember at all times, in all our relationships, that we who are in Christ, are a forgiven people. That means that just as Jesus Christ brought about God's forgiveness by His sacrificial death on the cross, that we are to never hesitate to offer forgiveness to those who have harmed us, or have made it difficult for us in our lives.
3. Practice Love as an Action
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 – “Love is patient, love is kind… it is not proud.”
Love is the glue that binds relationships—it’s active, sacrificial, and enduring.
- James 3:18 – “Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.”
Love leads to peace, and peace leads to spiritual fruit.
I remember this illustration of love and forgiveness: It is the sweet and appealing fragrance that a flower gives off when it is trampled. The strong natural tendency when we are hurt or harmed by others, is to get even, or to display a cold shoulder, vowing to never have anything to do with that person, or party ever again. But instead of doing what is natural, we must do what is super-natural, and show the love and forgiveness that God demonstrated toward us, through His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ.
4. Build Trust and Honesty
- Open dialogue, consistency, and accountability are essential for trust.
Scripture encourages us to speak truthfully and listen actively to foster deeper bonds.
- James 1:19-20 "Therefore my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God."
I am one who has, and at times still have anger issues. Sometimes over the littlest things. But I have learned that anger only makes things worse in the conflicts, and arguments we have with others. It is like pouring gasoline on a fire.
Solomon writes: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
5. Embrace Humility and Selflessness
- Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition… value others above yourselves.”
Realignment often begins with putting others first and letting go of pride.
In the realignment of our relationships, we need to see what our attitude, and position should be in our relationships. Instead of the attitude of selfishness, and pride, there needs to be an attitude of humility, and placing ourselves in the position of servant-hood. To answer the question: How can I be a blessing to those around me? To those in my family, friends in the community, to everyone that we have contact with. When our attitude is right, so will our relationships.
If you're navigating a strained relationship, these principles offer a road map toward healing.
Monday, October 6, 2025
How A Congregation Affects A Pastor?
Looking back on my years as being a pastor, I remember the congregations I served, and the affect they had on me, and my family. With any vocation, or career, there are the ups and downs. It is definitely a people business. And you deal with people who are very supportive, and those who are obstacles to the work and progress of the work, and growth of the church. A congregation can either be a source of strength or strain for a pastor. The Bible speaks to the fact that the healthiest relationships are built on mutual respect, shared burdens, and spiritual unity. When a church embraces its pastor with grace, prayer, and partnership, it reflects the heart of Christ—and the entire body flourishes.The Bible offers rich insights into how a congregation can profoundly affect a pastor—spiritually, emotionally, and even physically. Here are several key themes drawn from Scripture and biblical reflections:
Hebrews 13:17 – “Obey them that have the rule over you… that they may do it with joy, and not with grief.”
2. Emotional Impact: Healing and Burden Sharing
Galatians 6:2 – “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” When a congregation supports its pastor—through prayer, encouragement, and shared responsibility—it lightens the emotional and spiritual load. As a pastor, I really appreciated the prayers, and encouragement of the congregation. it means so much to know that your church family is behind you, praying for you, and if you had a need, you knew that they would be there for you! That brings joy!
4. Spiritual Encouragement: Prayer and Unity
5. Leadership and Accountability
I know that churches can have outrageous expectations. You feel like you live in a glass house. A congregation needs to realize that a pastor is human too. He is just as vulnerable to temptations and trials. Instead of expecting perfection, a congregation needs to be an encouraging body of believers, who know that just as they fight their battles with Satan and the world, the pastor is doing the very same thing. Yes, a pastor must lead by example, but for that to happen, the congregation must be by his side to help him do that!
Monday, September 29, 2025
How A Pastor Affects A Congregation?
I remember a pastor friend of mind, who has gone home to be with the Lord, said something to me that I never forgot. He said,"A shepherd does not give birth to sheep, only sheep give birth to sheep." The point he was making to me was that a shepherd's main responsibility, is to take care of the sheep in his fold. Which is a picture of what the main role of a pastor is, in regards to the church. And for a pastor to be effective in the care of his congregation, he must definitely be among the people.
When a pastor is truly among the people—present, engaged, and relational—it profoundly affects the growth of a congregation. This isn’t just about attendance numbers; it’s about spiritual depth, unity, and transformation. Here’s how Scripture and biblical principles illuminate this dynamic:
1. Shepherding Through Presence
1 Peter 5:2–3 calls pastors to “be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care… being examples to the flock.” A shepherd doesn’t lead from a distance. By walking with the sheep, the pastor builds trust, models Christ-like character, and nurtures spiritual growth. There are pastors that rely on their preaching and teaching of the Word of God. Even though this is the responsibility of every pastor, just as important is the ministry of visitation, and personal encouragement of the Word of God. It is a statement of the pastor to each member of the congregation, that it's more than just words from the pulpit, but it's his presence and involvement that backs up the words that he shares.
2. Building Genuine Relationships
When pastors are accessible and relational, they foster a culture of openness and belonging. This reflects Acts 2:44–47, where believers were “together and had everything in common.” The early church grew because of deep fellowship, not just good preaching. it is important for the members of the congregation to know without a doubt, that their pastor is a close friend, and will celebrate with them in the good times, and comfort them in the bad. When a pastor bonds with his church members, (not just some, but all) it really becomes a very rewarding experience for both the pastor, and the members.
3. Equipping Through Engagement
Ephesians 4:11–13 teaches that pastors equip the saints for ministry. That equipping happens best through personal interaction—mentoring, listening, and walking alongside people in their daily lives. I heard a professor of a Christian college, talk about how effective it is when a pastor taps his members on the shoulder, and directs them towards a special personal ministry. As a pastor, you have to spend time with the members, to know them personally, in order to help them to be fitted, and framed for their work in the church, and their witness to the world.
4. Teaching That Connects
A pastor who knows their people can preach with relevance and compassion. 2 Timothy 4:2 urges pastors to “correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.” That kind of teaching requires knowing the struggles and joys of the congregation. As a pastor, the more you know the members of your congregation, the more you will be able to share Scripture that will really hit the target as far as meeting their needs.
5. Guiding Through Crisis
Pastors who are present during grief, conflict, or hardship become spiritual anchors. Acts 20:28 reminds leaders to “keep watch over yourselves and all the flock… Be shepherds of the church of God.” Presence during pain builds spiritual resilience. It is vitally important that pastors are there for the members when they are going through various trials. As a minister of Jesus Christ, in those times of trial, you represent Christ. You are the feet, the voice, the loving arms of Jesus, that will make such a difference in the lives of those who are going through difficulties in the family of God. .
6. Modeling Servant Leadership
Philippians 2:3–4 and John 13 show Jesus serving His disciples. Pastors who serve humbly—visiting homes, praying with members, joining in community work—model the gospel in action. This inspires others to serve and deepens the church’s witness. A pastor is not to be like a dictator, but is to be like Jesus, who was a servant leader. When Jesus washed the disciples feet, He showed them an example, of how they were to minister to one another. When a pastor is seen serving, and ministering to the members of his church, every time it speaks to the church, of how we are to follow that example, and be strongly involved in ministering to one another.
Wednesday, September 24, 2025
Family Expectations
From our text, we see where Jesus places his family, in regards to His relationship with the Heavenly Father, and His purpose.
While Jesus was speaking to the people, His family show up, and want to speak to Him. Jesus gave a surprising response in the words of our text. In what He said, is Jesus saying that family is not important? No, but family is not to be more important than our relationship to God. and our ministry for Him.
But the irony of it is, that if we place God as first and foremost in our lives, our family relationships will be better, as well as all, of our relationships. God will show us from His Word, how we are to treat each other, and how we can minister to one another.
The main goal of our lives is to do the will of our Heavenly Father. In many families there are many expectations. And for some, if you don't meet those expectations, you are treated coldly. Some family members will not speak to one another for a long period of time because of this.
The greatest commandments are the expectations of our Heavenly Father. We are to love Him, with all that we have, and we are to love each other unconditionally. Yes, it is a matter of priorities, and a matter of humility and submission.
I know that even when I mess up and do not live up to the expectations of God, that He still loves me, and will not abandon me. We all need to get a grip on what is greatly important and adjust to fulfilling the will of God in all of our lives. GP
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Monday, September 22, 2025
Standing On The Gospel Of Jesus Christ
Standing On The Gospel Of Jesus Christ
Sunday, September 14, 2025
The Choice Of Our Words
How powerful is a sentence? How powerful is a group of words with the intent to hurt, and to incite conflict for a lifetime?
The line: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" is a lie. Words spoken in anger and hate, can cripple a person's inner spirit for a lifetime. How many people have taken the bitterness of spiteful words to their grave?
James brings out in our text, that even though the tongue is a little member, a small organ in the body, it can be used to start a fiery fight that will lead to much destruction. If what we say is intended to be positive criticism, than what we say should be seasoned with love.
The choice of our words, and the tone of our voice, should carry the intent of our heart. And that is where it all begins. In the intent of our heart. So often the anger we are feeling, leads to the lack of control of our tongue, and we find ourselves saying things, we never meant to say.
James gives us a warning here. To know the impact of our words.
They can cripple, or they can comfort. The choice is ours! GP
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Thursday, September 11, 2025
A Somber September Day To Remember
The September 11 attacks (also referred to as September 11, September 11th, or 9/11) were a series of four coordinated terrorist attacks by the Islamic terrorist group al-Qaeda on the United States on the morning of Tuesday, September 11, 2001. The attacks consisted of suicide attacks used to target symbolic U.S. landmarks. (From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)
Monday, September 8, 2025
Encouragement For Our Economy
Encouragement For Our Economy
Tuesday, September 2, 2025
When Jesus Is First
(Revelation 2:4)
"There is so much good in this church (of Ephesus) that we are surprised to discover they had left (not lost) their first love.
The honeymoon was over (Jeremiah 2:2)!
No amount of separation, sacrifice, or service can make up for your lack of love toward the Lord."
(Warren W. Wiersbe With The Word A Devotional) Commentary P. 847)
Everything that is successful in the Christian life, stems from our love for the Lord. It begins there. And if we love the Lord with all of our heart, no matter what the circumstances are, or the people that we are dealing with, we will obey the Lord in all things.
In the Christian life, there is too much focus on self. We can get really busy on programs and activities, that we forsake our time to fellowship with the Lord, and give Him the worship He deserves.
Or we can constantly complain about our circumstances, and what the Lord has called us to do, that we drag our feet, and become ineffective in our ministry for Him. Putting attention on ourselves instead of loving the Lord, and putting Him first, can have devastating results.
In the Christian life, it does not begin with the work, it begins with a relationship with Jesus Christ. From that mutual loving relationship there will come a most dynamic and effective ministry.
Let's love the Lord First and foremost, and let Him lead the way, to a successful ministry for Him! GP
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Monday, August 25, 2025
Feeling Like We Belong
Feeling Like We Belong
Sunday, August 24, 2025
Let's Go To School
Where I am, here in Iowa, school started this week. Let's offer a prayer, for all the young people, teachers & staff, who will begin school this week!.
To gain much, in the area of learning, means that there must be a submissive attitude. A submissive attitude, leads to an open mind, and heart. To be willing to take in what you see, and hear, and apply it to one's life, is the beginning of the development of productivity, in one's life.
That's is the way it must be in our spiritual life. As our text says: "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge." We are not going to mature, in our Christian walk, if we don't first, fear the Lord, and allow Him to teach us, what He wants us be and to do. Spiritual knowledge will not come, if there is a wall of pride, and apathy, standing in the way.
There are many people who feel that they have it all figured out.
They do more talking, then listening. There are those who don't believe God exists, and secondly, if He does, He has nothing to say, to better their lives. Talk about delusions!
The state of our society tells me, we have a lot to learn from God.
And it's time that we go to God's school, and get the instruction we need! GP
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Sunday, August 17, 2025
A Lifetime Of Saying "Yes" To Jesus
As a Christians, how committed are we to Jesus Christ? Where are we in your relationship with Him? What was going through our minds when we surrendered our lives to our Savior?
I am sure that at that moment we felt that we would always be 100% committed to the Lord, and then things happened. Over a period of time, we became distracted with the affairs of the world. We became so preoccupied with certain pursuits in our lives, that the Lord became less of a priority. What we promised to be, and to do, just went by the wayside.
Good intentions? Yes, but not a feeling of fulfillment. Because in this process of time, we never felt that feeling of total satisfaction and contentment. We felt that void in our hearts, that only the Savior could fill.
The Apostle Paul was totally sold out to the Lord Jesus Christ. He went all the way for the Lord, and never hesitated, or became pre-occupied with other things. He kept the faith, and he fought the good fight to the very end. (2 Timothy 4:7) It was a lifetime of saying "Yes" to whatever the Lord wanted with him, and his life.
As Christians, shouldn't we say "Yes" to Jesus, everyday of our lives?
"What He says we will do; Where He sends, we will go, Never fear, only trust and obey." GP
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